“CONFIDANTS, COMRADES & CONSTITUENTS….WHO’S IN YOUR CIRCLE?”

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GOOD MORNING READERS AND FELLOW BLOGGERS, MAY THIS BLOG FIND YOU IN GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL SPIRITS!

 

Today I would like to dedicate my blog to “SERMON SUNDAY” ,where I will share with you a message that entails knowledge of the type of people that you may have in your circle. Many times we as individuals feel as if everyone we encounter, are on the same level and page. This isn’t the case and rarely true, because each person that you come in contact with and form a relationship, isn’t always for your best interest. I want us all to take a look at the people in our circle and ask yourself…..WHO ARE MY CONFIDANTS, MY CONSTITUENTS AND MY COMRADES?

 

“CONFIDANTS”

THESE ARE THE INDIVIDUALS WHO ARE GENUINELY FOR YOU AND EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU AND THEY LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY. THESE PEOPLE RESPECT YOUR VIEWS AND OPINIONS, ALL WHILE HOLDING THEIR OWN AND IT DOESN’T STOP THEM FROM BEING LOYAL TO YOUR FRIENDSHIP. THIS INDIVIDUAL WILL KEEP YOUR SECRETS SECURE, SUPPORT YOUR DREAM AND NOT MIMIC IT FOR THEMSELVES. CONFIDANTS ARE A PURE EXAMPLE OF THE TYPE OF PEOPLE THAT YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL THAT YOU HAD AN OPPORTUNITY TO MEET AND HOLD A RELATIONSHIP WITH.

 

“CONSTITUENTS”

THESE INDIVIDUALS ARE FOR WHAT EVER YOU ARE FOR AND ONLY THAT, BECAUSE IF SOMEONE ELSE COMES ALONG WITH WHAT YOU POSSESS, THEY WILL LEAVE YOU FOR THEM. INDIVIDUALS LIKE THIS ARE ONLY PRESENT UNTIL A NEW OR BETTER OPPORTUNITY ARISES AND THE ONLY BENEFIT IS WHAT WILL COME TO THEM. THEIR OVERALL OBJECTIVE IS AIMED AT WHAT CAN I GET OUT OF THE SITUATION AND WHO GIVES THE BETTER ADVANTAGE. THE HIDDEN AGENDA IS SELF GAIN AND NOT MUTUAL GAIN. CONSTITUENTS ARE ABOUT THE CAUSE AND NOT ABOUT YOU, THEY ARE FOR WHAT IS NEEDED FOR THEM AND NOT WORRIED IF YOU GET IT OR NOT.

 

“COMRADES”

THESE INDIVIDUALS ARE FOR WHATEVER YOU ARE AGAINST AND IF THAT FEELING CHANGES, THEY ARE NOT FOR YOU ANYMORE. THEIR INTEREST LIES IN THE COMMON FIGHT OR BATTLE THAT THEY ARE CURRENTLY IN. THEY ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU SHARE THE SAME DISLIKE FOR SOMETHING OR SOMEONE. THESE INDIVIDUALS WILL CHANGE THEIR SUPPORT, THE MINUTE YOU TURN THE CHEEK ON THE MUTUAL PROBLEM YOU BOTH HAVE. COMRADES ARE NOT INTERESTED IN GETTING TO KNOW YOU, THEY ARE INTERESTED IN AIDE FOR THE FIGHT OR CAUSE THAT BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER AND WILL LEAVE YOU WHEN THE FIGHT IS OVER.

 

 

I HOPED YOU ENJOYED MY “SERMON SUNDAY” AND UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN, BE SAFE AND HAVE AN AWESOME DAY!

 

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