“I am no longer ACCEPTING the things I can’t CHANGE and I am CHANGING the things I can no longer ACCEPT”

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SUCH A STATEMENT HAS MUCH POWER AND YET THERE ARE MANY WHO MAY FIND THIS TASK IMPOSSIBLE……I DON’T AND I WILL EXPLAIN!

 

THINGS I WILL NO LONGER EXCEPT, THAT I WILL CHANGE…..

 

NOT SPEAKING HOW HOW I FEEL, BECAUSE ANOTHER MAY BE OFFENDED.

IF I SPEAK HOW I FEEL AND THAT IS MY ENTITLEMENT, THE OFFENSE OF ANOTHER IS THEIR PROBLEM. MY AIM WAS NEVER TO BE DISRESPECTFUL AND THE USE OF RATIONAL BEHAVIOR REPRESENTS THAT. THEREFOR, MY EXPERIENCES AND FEELINGS ARE MY OWN AND THEY WILL BE SHARED AT THE POINT WHERE I MEET THEM!

 

FOLLOWING A CROWD, BECAUSE I WANT TO ACCOMPANY MANY………

HONESTLY I WAS THE ONE WHO WANTED A LARGE GROUP OF FRIENDS, UNTIL I REALIZED THAT QUALITY WAS WAY BETTER THAN QUANTITY. THROUGHOUT MY LIFE I HAVE OBSERVED MANY GOING NOWHERE FAST AND CARRYING EMPTY SOULS. I SAY THAT TO SAY, SOME PEOPLE JUST MANEUVER THROUGH LIFE WITH NO PURPOSE AND I CHOOSE NOT TO SURROUND MYSELF WITH THOSE. I WANT TO ACCOMPANY THOSE WHO CAN TEACH ME NEW THINGS, TAKE ME TO HIGHER PLACES AND STIMULATE MY MIND AT THE SAME TIME. WHEN YOU BEGIN TO GROW FROM WITHIN, YOU BEGIN TO KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF THOSE IN YOUR CIRCLE. NO NEED TO HAVE ALL OF THE SO-CALLED FRIENDS AROUND ME, BECAUSE THE TRUE FRIENDS HAVE ALREADY BEEN UPGRADED TO FAMILY AND I APPRECIATE THOSE FEW I HAVE!

 

ELIMINATE CONVERSATIONS ABOUT  ISSUES AND START CONVERSATIONS ABOUT CHANGE/SOLUTIONS………

TO SIT AND GOSSIP ABOUT SOMEONE, ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE NOT PRESENT TO DEFEND THEMSELVES IS A COWARD MOVE. WE ALL HAVE MANY PROBLEMS OF OUR OWN AND UNLESS THE GOAL IS TO ASSIST, WHY SPEAK ON IT. UNDERSTANDING THAT TALKING BAD ABOUT OTHERS ONLY REPRESENTS YOUR ISSUES, I SHUT ANY CONVERSATION THAT I HEAR GOING IN THAT DIRECTION DOWN AND UNFORTUNATELY IT HAS PISSED SOME PEOPLE OFF…OH FUCKING WELL. WHEN PEOPLE EVEN GIVE OFF THE ENERGY THAT THEY WILL BE TRYING TO ENTERTAIN MY EAR WITH BS, I SIMPLY BRING UP SOME INFORMATION OR KNOWLEDGE THAT THEY SHOULD BE TALKING ABOUT, JUST TO SEE WHERE THERE HEAD IS. OF COURSE YOU KNOW THIS JUST LEADS TO A SIMPLE MINDED RESPONSE OF, LET ME GET THIS CALL AND CALL YOU RIGHT BACK…..NO DON’T BOTHER, I WILL TALK TO YOU WHEN I CAN!

 

STOP CONTINUING THE GENERATIONAL CYCLE OF DYSFUNCTION IN THE FAMILY AND BREAK IT BY SHOWING A BETTER EXAMPLE OF A LEADING WOMAN……..

THERE ARE DYSFUNCTIONS CALLED GENETIC PATHOGENS AND THEY ARE THE GERMS THAT ARE PASSED DOWN FROM ONE GENERATION TO ANOTHER. UNFORTUNATELY WHAT THIS CREATES IS A CYCLE OF REPETITIVE BEHAVIOR THAT IS SO VISIBLE IN THE FAMILY, YET NO ONE WANTS TO ADDRESS IT. WELL IN MY FAMILY I AM THE GENERATION DOCTOR, WHO WILL BE ASSIGNED TO CURE THIS EPIDEMIC THAT HAS PLAGUED MY OWN FAMILY. WHEN I LOOK AT MY GRANDCHILDREN AND FEEL THE JOY THAT THEY BRING ME, IT IS MY DUTY, MY CALLING, MY PURPOSE AND MY PLEASURE TO BE THE EXAMPLE THAT THIS NEW GENERATION WILL SEE!

 

SITTING BACK COMPLAINING ABOUT THE PROBLEM AND BEGIN ADVOCATING AND DEMONSTRATING ACTIONS TOWARDS SOLUTIONS……

IN MY COMMUNITY OF THE BLACK CULTURE, MANY THINGS PLAGUE US AS A WHOLE AND INDIVIDUALLY THAT NEED ATTENTION. I WITNESS MANY THINGS IMMORALLY AIMED AGAINST MY PEOPLE AND OUR CULTURE, THAT BRINGS MYSELF TO A PLACE TO SIT BACK NO LONGER. IDENTIFYING THE CONTRIBUTION THAT I CAN MAKE IN THE FIGHT FOR HUMANITY, IT LEADS ME TO BEGIN BY SHARING AND SPREADING THE TRUTH OF MANY THINGS THAT HAVE BEEN HIDDEN FROM US. FROM HISTORY TO CURRENT EVENTS, IT IS TIME OUR PEOPLE RISE UP AND MAKE THE CHANGE WE ARE CAPABLE OF. IF EACH OF US JUST DO THAT ONE THING THAT CAN HAVE A DOMINO EFFECT, IMAGINE THE CHANGE WE COULD SEE. I HAVE JUST BEGUN AND I AM SURE WHEN I GET GOING FULL THROTTLE, I WILL HAVE MANY STANDING BESIDE ME IN OUR PURSUIT!

 

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