“SOME PEOPLE WILL BE IN YOUR CIRCLE, BUT NOT BE IN YOUR CORNER!”

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GOOD MORNING READERS AND FELLOW BLOGGERS, MAY THIS BLOG FIND YOU IN THANKFUL AND GRATEFUL SPIRITS!

Today I would like to dedicate my blog to “GIRLFRIENDS”, where I will ask my “GOLDEN GALS” about friendships and advice to other women on building stronger relationships. Many females face negative encounters, bitter sweet conversation, false description, unfortunate jealousy and disrespectful humiliation from other females. The ponder is why is it present and what keeps it alive, for such negative interactions of females. Women are great examples to observe, inquire and become receptive to the wisdom and knowledge they share in regards to their healthy friendships. My observance places unstable toxic friendships in some of the newer generation, but some have been noted older as well. When you see a group of women, who are gathered together regularly, have the same ladies within the circle, support one another and have much time invested in the relationship…..THAT’S FRIENDSHIP TO ME!

But since my opinion and view is not the only one to be considered, lets talk to my “DAY1’S” and get their answer to the following question:

WHAT ARE THE KEY ELEMENTS TO MAINTAINING A STRONG AND SOLID FRIENDSHIP WITH OTHER WOMEN?

 

GMA:

“FIRST AND FOREMOST, IS TO KNOW WHO IS ACTUALLY YOUR FRIEND AND IF YOU REALLY HAVE A FRIENDSHIP OR NOT. WITH MUCH TO DO IN JUST TAKING CARE OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, WHO OUTSIDE OF BLOOD CAN YOU CALL ON IN TIMES OF DESPAIR?”

BIG MOMMA:

“YOUR FRIEND CAN BE IDENTIFIED BY THE ONE WHO LAUGHED, CRIED, PLAYED, SANG, DANCE, RAN, WORKED, PRAYED AND SHARED MEMORIES WITH. SHE HAS KNOWN YOUR LIFE AS YOU DO AND YOU, BUT STILL LOVES YOU ALL WHILE BEING SUPPORTIVE!”

MA’DEAR:

YOU MUST BE WITH AND AROUND PEOPLE WHO BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOU, NOT THE WORST. IN DETERMINING WHO IS A REAL FRIEND AND WHO IS NOT, PAY ATTENTION TO THE ONES WHO NOURISH YOUR SOUL AND LIFT YOU UP. THAT IS TRUE FRIENDSHIP!!

ME: THANKS LADIES, DAY1’S, WISE WOMEN AND LOVED ONES. THESE ANSWERS RESIGNATE AND HOPEFULLY OTHERS WILL RECEIVED IT!!

#WISEWOMEN&WORDS

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